I have been to Bagby Hot Springs many many times for all night soaks and learned how to give massages in those hot tubs and I now have giving many many massages and guys are unhappy because if they want a happy ending they must do it themselves. I recently went to a private all male resort that has a clothing optional policy.
Note that it has been mothers not fathers that have demanded that their boys not be forced to shower after PE and sports, nor swim naked. Did the resurgence of prudish behavior begin with the Reagan administration, or did it begin before then? Here in Peru we bathe nude in semi-deserted beaches, I make love to my girlfriend over a large towel in the beach, we males bathe naked in swimming pools, are naked in communnal showers ans lockers.
As far as I know nobody has a problem and everyone feels comfortable with being naked around others. Is it gay for men to swim naked in pools, public or private? It is American Stupidity at its finest; trying to save us all from common sense under the guise of risk reduction.